Controlling
premature ejaculation
Masters and Johnson recommended the use
of the Lateral coital position to help
alleviate premature ejaculation. The position was recommended
by them for all couples in cases of premature ejaculation
due to reduced pressure on the man but this position particularly
is effective for the woman, as she can move with full freedom
to enjoy either slow or rapid pelvic thrusting, depending
upon current levels of sexual tensions."
This
position leaves the partners both fully supported by the
bed (the man on his back, the woman on her right shoulder
and torso) except for the woman's left leg which is resting
on the man's right hip. The man is flat on his back, while
the woman is rolled slightly to her right. Their bodies
form an angle of roughly 30°, leaving the partners face
to face with the woman's weight on her right shoulder. Pillows
are used under both partner's heads, more pillows may be
needed to support the woman's upper body.
Moving into this position requires that
the partners begin in the woman on top or "cowgirl"
position.
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The man lifts the woman's right leg
with his left hand.
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The man begins to bend his left knee
without lifting his knee from the bed. Instead, he slides
his left knee outwards as it bends, opening his inner
left thigh towards the ceiling. He slides his left leg
upward and outward until it has passed underneath her
lifted right leg.
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Meanwhile, the woman leans to her
left, and places her weight on her left knee. This allows
her to straighten out her lifted right leg behind her,
placing it inside her partner's bent left leg. Care
must be taken at this point that the penis does not
slip out.
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Once the legs are switched, the woman
leans forward to the man's chest. He holds her body
firmly against his body with both arms.
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Together, they roll to her left (his
right), where her upper body remains. She may prop herself
up on her left elbow or lay flat against a pillow. The
man rolls back flat upon his back, while they keep their
pelvises pressed together. At this point of time the
man is lying flat on his back on the bed and the plane
of the woman's upper body is almost perpendicular to
that of the man's. The woman's weight is entirely on
her left side of the body and her left elbow.
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They resume intercourse.
The trial runs usually begin in a humorous
vein; yet with functional seriousness husband and wife easily
can work out the problems of comfortable arms and legs placement
and rapidly accomplish facility with the position-conversion
technique. Again, the lateral coital position is the most
effective coital position from mutuality of shared male
and female freedom of sexual experimentation.
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